I hate change. I hate new things. I hate new situations. I hate unexpected circumstances. I hate spontaneity. I hate saying no.
This would seem like I hate an awful lot of things. However, I am plunged uncontrollably into many of these on a weekly, or sometimes daily basis; mostly on a small scale. Some might argue that this is good for me, that it broadens my horizons and challenges me. However, lately I seem to be submerged in an awful lot of big changes or situations. This is exhausting.
Last week I officially started a new job. In the same week I also moved house. I was also asked to consider joining my church prayer ministry team. So the former two of these events will be covered in subsequent posts, the most prominent in my mind happened this evening.
I reluctantly gulfed down my cheesy, beans on toast so that I could leave the house and be at my meeting for 7:30 (standard church time). What I really wanted to do after a long day at work was run a bath, curl up with my book and get a nice early night. This was not the reality. Instead, I ended up at this meeting.
I walked in very reluctant and even though I knew a few of the faces there I still did not want to engage. I had several reasons for why I should not be involved in this team and I was sticking to my guns with several eye rolls strategically and intermittently placed throughout. I. WAS. NOT. SUPPOSED. TO. BE. THERE.
Then one guy came to the front of the room and started telling his testimony, particularly to the four new (young) people who had been invited. This included myself and two of my old housemates and one other. I was skeptical and still very nervous, I really didnt think I was supposed to be there. Then….. he opened his mouth.
Sentence after sentence he broke every single barrier I had put up for why I thought I should not be at that meeting. A real smack in the face from God. Another way of saying…. told you so, I know best, just listen to me! God used this incredible guy as a vessel to speak directly to me right there, right then. When I was tuned out, withdrawn and not willing to listen, he used a prominent voice that was right there, physically in my face to talk to me, tell me and show me I was in the right place. Even when I think I know what I want and need he showed up to show me otherwise.
If that was not enough, next I was challenged to pray for another person on the ministry team. Absolutely not, I couldn’t do it….. instead of pushing me too far out of my comfort zone…. God saved me. Both the guy who had previously spoken and I directly headed to one another and I shared with him how he had really impacted me and he was astounded…. he just started praying for me. It did not end here. Another member of the team had a word for me. Now, this word from God may not have meant anything to any other member of the congregation but I knew exactly what it meant, I know that it was a kick up the backside and I know what I’m being prompted to do now. In fact another individual offered me that exact thing today in a different meeting. God is so good, he knows what we need, what’s best for us even when we don’t. Even when we think he has abandoned us, he is there watching over us and loving us in a way I just cannot comprehend.
God shows up in ways we least expect it, when we least expect it and especially when we think we already know the answers ourselves.
I’m on one heck of a journey and I really do not know where i’m headed but, I think that’s exciting. Everything my Father does, he does for good so i’m looking forward to seeing what this next chapter looks like.
There’s no power strong enough to separate me from your love no matter how hard they may try.