I find it hard to be vulnerable with people. I’ve been hurt one too many times. This is one of those times when my mind is overflowing, life is funny and i’m turning back to my trusty blog.
Let me set the scene….
I’m working in a role that works with refugees and asylum seekers, it’s great. It’s a maternity post. Falling in to this post was without doubt an absolute blessing, it’s been such an experience and i’ve learnt so much both about refugees and asylum seekers and about myself. However, now I find myself in a bit of a situation where my contract is coming to an end, my predecessor is coming back. I’ve been applying for jobs in the same sector but coming up with nothing; reaching interview stages and then never getting the position or often not getting the interview at all. For me, this raises a whole bunch of issues relating to rejection, failure, inadequacy, direction etc. So here I am 45 days before my contract ends with an definite sense of fear. I know for me, it’s easy to spiral things out of control. No job, no rent, no home, no Derby. This is disaster stations.
People keep telling me God’s in all of this and he has a plan for me. I do not doubt this, but sometimes I find this hard to grasp on to in the midst of the chaos. I hate change, I am aware of this, that doesn’t make experiencing it any easier. What am I being called to? I don’t know. Where does God want me? I don’t know. This makes things more difficult. From the outset it looks as though everyone else knows what they’re doing, where they’re going or they know how to find out what it is that they’re going to do. This doesn’t seem clear to me, how do you discern God’s voice when you’re in the middle of what seems like a storm? I know that ultimately God’s will, will be done but how I fit into that right now is not clear and i’m starting to panic. I’m struggling. Continue reading